Last year I was not on top of much of anything. After experiencing an immense amount of loss and a change in my own personal relationship dynamic, I found myself with very little energy to hold space for myself, let alone my clients and submissives. Its a shame really. I feel like I started out the year with some solid momentum. I had a plan to start creating more content consistently, updating this blog, and staying on top of emails and social media. I was given an opportunity to work with a phenomenal mentor and had to step away from that as well as my online work. I needed to care for myself and focus primarily on that. The thing I've come to learn most about my work this last year is that its hard work. Like really hard work. I never though sex work was easy, but also never really truly understood the amount of effort and self that goes into it when you solely rely on it for your income and work independently. That said, This year is good! Or at least, I'm off to a...