As pandemic times go by, I find it more difficult to love what I do. Not because I don't love BDSM and the psychology behind paraphilias, but because I'm tired of forcing myself into roles that just don't jive with who I am and what I enjoy. I blame a lot of this on the switch to working online platforms like niteflirt. I joke around that its akin to the fast food version of what should be a 5 star steakhouse. I miss the dungeon. What I miss about being in the dungeon is having that connection. Knowing I had a chunk of that individual's time and undivded attention to explore who they were, what they needed from me, how I could best use them in a way that would make the time enjoyable for both of us. Real time sessions command more respect as well. A person online really has no obligation to be respectful towards you. Face to face interaction can be a solid deterrant for ill manners. It also allows you to work with your enviornment. You have your canvas primed and ready...